Have you ever looked at your mate and wanted to tell them, I love you, you look nice, you smell really good or thanks for the kind gesture, your kind words made my day. Wait let me guess, as a man that could show your vulnerability to this woman. As a woman you might feel, you’re leaving yourself open to hurt or embarrassment not knowing what he may say, if you show you are falling to deep for this man. Guess what guys, when you care for someone, you are already vulnerable or can be hurt by this person, even if you try and keep it to yourself.
Why would you turn the emotion part of the relationship off? All healthy relationships, no matter how long you are in it, grow into a positive direction when they are full of emotions; both good and bad emotions. Emotions are what make for good communication and pure unadulterated affection towards one another.
Why would couples want to be in one another’s presence
with that empty crampy stomach feeling? Why be miserable?
Don’t waste years harboring bad feeling and just when there is
an emotion break through you go right back to saying, “I can’t forgive
you for what you did, you left me lonely and broke my heart.
Although you said, we’ll never part. Everything you said I thought
was true when the biggest liar was always you.”
Did you know that any relationship can be rebuilt, if there are TWO
willing persons? Emotionless relationships are worthless and no one
benefits. Did you know these types of relationships also cause health
issues? Why not take a chance on the person you claim to want to
be with, love or care for? Is it going to be easy? No. Is it possible? Yes.
Be the one to take that first step in rebuilding and healing your relationship?
Instead of having the I can’t forgive you emotion, try turning that
around to the caring emotion that would make you feel and think this
way, “Today I dreamt of coming home only to you, to sit with you,
and talk of how your day went and what can I do to make it better. Today
I dreamt of precious moments with you to ease your every desire
and thought. Today I dreamt of you and I.”
Everyone has kindness inside; don’t smile with those you don’t really know.
Show your love and caring emotion to those you’re supposed to take care
of and protect, to be there through sickness and health, for better or for worse.
It really doesn’t hurt to show a little emotion!