As men we tend to want things the way we want them instantly. You should blame it on our society that has made us to believe that we can have anything we want with a snap of a finger. We don’t think about waiting to see if what we want is really what we want. Its like a quick fix, something that will make us feel good for the moment. When it come to relationships you should wait and get a chance to really know who you are dealing with. When meeting someone for the first time you break the ice of getting to know them. If you already know them and are on your first date, you will want to get to know them more. The information that you already have is just the surface of who they are. You do not know what lies under the iceberg. When dating, it is important to try to see every side of a person. Take them to different spots, put them in different situations, ask questions. All will test them to see how well they will react or respond. Once you know them you would have developed a friendship with them. Thats why friend is at the end of that title. After you have developed a friendship you become a little closer than before. You will both know how to talk and treat each other. You will know the likes and dislikes without ever having to second guess yourself. The main point is that you wait until all of this has developed. Going into a relationship prematurely can do one of two things, head in the right direction or turn sour. Things can work out if you have the patience to work things out and figure how to work with each other. Things turn sour because you notice things you never saw before or really paid any attention to. You don’t want to take that chance. Do things right the first time and you will not have to wonder which side of the 50/50 line you will be on. How long should you wait? That is up to you. But, do you really think that you should ask someone to be your other half after only knowing them or dating them for three weeks? Have you really spent a lot of time with them? Do you feel comfortable in sharing your secrets with them? Do you feel that you can even trust them? Ask yourselves these questions and really think about the answers before you say them. One scenario most people don’t think about is if you were in an accident, do you think you could really trust that person with your life? Yes this is mainly a marriage type of scenario, but if you think about it and feel that you can trust this person that much, it says a lot about that person. That person will also be thankful because they will see that you are not just another person trying to use them. You actually got a chance to know the real them and want to take your relationship into the next level.