After two people have been married for a while, things tend to get a little stale. The sex may not be the same as when you first were married and if you have children, the time that you spend together becomes almost nonexistent. Bringing the fire and fun back into your marriage isn’t such a daunting task as one might think. If you want to light the spark and fun back into your relationship, there are three easy things you can do to reconnect.
Spend more time with your spouse: Spending quality time together is a very crucial component in marriage. Take one day out of the week and plan an activity for just you and your significant other. Going to the movies is always good; however, a good way to add a little fun and excitement to your relationship is to have one of you plan an activity and surprise the other. Some great suggestions for activities are picnics, horseback riding, jet skiing, bunging jumping, cycling, and walks on the beach. Taking a cooking class is a great way to spend time together.
Improve Your Sex Life: One sure way to fire up things is to put the passion back into the bedroom. Talk to your spouse and find out what your spouse’s fantasies are. A good way of reconnecting emotionally as well as physically to each other is improving the foreplay and spontaneity in love making. Massaging each other with oils and lotions, role playing, and sex games not only help bring the excitement back but are great fun.
Plan a romantic getaway once a year: There is nothing better than a romantic getaway. It can be fun and exciting to explore a romantic paradise with your spouse. Not only can one travel abroad for a romantic getaway, there are also many places in the US that you can getaway to. The Florida Keys and Hawaii are beautiful places for rekindling a romantic fire. If you like a little activity with your romance, you can white water raft in Tennessee on the Ocoee River or you can go skiing in Colorado. Romantic getaways are not only fun and relaxing, it also allows you to forget your cares and focus on the one you love.
These three steps are a good start in bringing the excitement and fire back into marriage. Remember, if you want to keep a fire burning, you have to throw some kindle on the flame to keep it going. So get started with the rekindling and have fun with it.
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