In order for anyone else to love you, let alone like you, you have to love yourself first. Stop and examine yourself. Check out everything about you. You are the coolest, the smartest, and the sexiest man in the world. Believe it. It builds up your confidence. It all starts in your head. You have to believe in yourself in order to find the love of your life. How do you expect the girl to love you if you don’t love yourself? Even if she does, it will only be temporary, especially if she puts her faith into you and you don’t put a cent in yourself. At the end of the day, she will only wonder why she even bothers. A person can want good things for you all day long. It’s proven that nothing happens. Only when you want those good things to happen, you will start seeing the results. Have you ever seen the ugly guy that has a face only a mother could love pull the sexiest looking girl in the world? You can’t help but wonder why. Well that ugly guy has confidence and believes in himself. For that reason, his results showed in his girl. Don’t think that the girl is only dating him just out of pity (as much as we want to believe). He got himself up in confidence and simply dominated the game. No matter if it’s your love life or your everyday life, great things can happen once you start believing the fact that you can do it. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you can do it. Give yourself a compliment or two. Everyone loves a compliment even your reflection. Tell yourself that it’s going to be a great day, or an awesome night. If you are sitting at home wondering why you never have any girls, you can change that outcome. Just because you never had a girlfriend in the past does not mean you can’t have one tomorrow. Why wait? It hasn’t worked thus far. Just get out there and make it happen. A girlfriend is not going to be mailed to you (it would be nice if she was mailed though). It’s up to you. You have the power to start it. You must be more positive about life. Feel good about yourself. And if there’s something that you don’t like about yourself, just simply change it. If you don’t like how your body looks, hit the gym. If you don’t like being indoors, go out with some friends. If you don’t like having any money, get a job. These things help build up your self esteem. Also, be sure to check out The Secret. That’s a great guidance to building yourself up. Know that nobody looks out for you better than you. So as soon as you feel good about yourself and your swagger is on a million, it is guaranteed the girls will be breaking your door down. You can do it.